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The Dwelling of Wisdom

“Tenacious: determined, committed, persistent…strong, powerful.”

With tenacity, we face missions possible in wisdom and integrity – honorable personal qualities.

“Stubborn – dogged determination not to change one’s attitude or position.”

Stubborn is a need to be right.

It is an emotional battle of the adult ego attempting to convince itself of its importance,

It is the inner child shielding itself from feelings of disapproval, judgment, imprints of not being enough, not valued.

When you hear yourself being “doggedly determined” to prove you’re right and know more than another or others, at that moment, allow your wisdom to acknowledge and your voice to confess, “I apologize. I choose to receive what your experience can teach me.”

Occasionally changing our mind – ideas, viewpoints and opinions –  is not a sign of weakness. It is evidence of elucidation, of personal and spiritual growth.

Selah

HOW TO BE THE BEST YOU

I AM a Shower (noun) and Shower (verb) of Love, Compassion, Wisdom, Light and Truth.

If you feel stuck, your vision of your purpose has weakened, wonder if you have taken the wrong path, considering a new direction or wake up each morning to “Groundhog Day”, I AM here. Allow me to guide you into your Light of hope, possibility and positivity to uncover (or discover) your joy and purpose again. (Email Me or comment.)

YOU GOT THIS!

You can get a head start by downloading the Kindle version of my short, succinct second book, HOW TO BE THE BEST YOU  here → http://conversationswithcynthia.com/its-here/

Concept verses Embodiment

In the past when I’ve had a question, my curiosity led me to find the answer; some quickly and others over months and years. I’ve thought “I wish I had understood these golden threads weaving my life’s tapestry before!” I remembered ALL IS IN perfect timing. We are prepared to see, hear, receive and apply Wisdom when we are ready.

AND knowing is not enough. It’s not even the point of our questions and curiosities. The point of our inquiry is: your higher self is guiding you in your ascension process to apply the information (in-form-an-action) meaning take the concept/idea into your heart, embodying it. This is spiritual alchemy.

“alchemy: a power or process that changes or transforms something in a mysterious or impressive way.” – Merriam Webster

Some information is just fun. And, then, what does that question reveal about you?

There are no coincidences in life. Those synchronicities are road signs confirming and directing our journey.

The next time something or someone draws your attention/curiosity/questions, put your right hand over your *heart and ask, “Is this for my eyes only?” 

Why am I curious?” OR “Why am I asking?

Is this a crumb directing my path?

Is my curiosity satisfied or do I explore further?

If the answer you hear begins with “Because…” or “But…”, Your mind just silenced your heart. Remember, your hand is over your heart to receive your truth “…that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened…” (Ephesians 1:18)

Whatever you are questioning is for you to seek its message, NOT to ask someone else what it means for you; nor for your mouth to cast the seeds of gossip about the circumstance or person(s).

*https://nwsidebar.wsba.org/2013/10/21/raise-right-hand-court/

Movement Is Progress

The magic of our life journey is in the directions our path turns, winds, stretches, sometimes descending in the valleys and ascending up the hills, dales and mountains. In the stretches, we can see clearly, often setting our controls on cruise, not planning beyond what we can see – a golden opportunity to envision what we desire.

Our path is always there. We can choose to take the fork or continue on the familiar. Neither is right or wrong. They both have their lessons.

At times, we may take three steps forward and three back. That’s OK!  We collect the lessons we have learned by those experiences, pass go and begin again.

We may take three steps forward and one step back. This is not a failure or a setback. It is you recalibrating your direction. Just as a baby falls as it’s learning to walk, it takes hold of a nearby support – adjusting from its imbalance how better to balance – strengthening it’s mental, emotional, and physical acumen.

All movement forward is progress.

Judging baby steps as small progress or how long it take to gain sure footing is self-sabotage.

When you catch the monkey talk belittling, judging or condemning you, only you can change the ticker tape…

“I am on my Divine path. My experiences are golden opportunities climbing Jacob’s ladder, creating my Heaven on Earth.”

Thoughts, Words and Actions From LOVE

“Nobody grows when you are attacking their weaknesses. People grow when you build up their strengths.” Lisa Bever

By your actions, be assisting.

Through your words, speak gratitude (for what you observe someone doing and/or what you hear of their “doings.”)

In(n)* your thoughts, hear the best scenario, see perfection, entertain blessings of Peace, Love, Joy and Abundance.

*We dwell in our heart-thoughts…that they are Heavenly.

The Priority of Self-Care

Have you (or do you) put other’s activities, health and happiness first in your daily routine, your “chores?”

In your doing so, do you feel “on-the-clock,” rushed, stressed, refereeing (and participating) in rounds of complaint/discontent?

__Yes

__No

If your answer is no, PLEASE comment with your treatise of self-mastery.

If your answer is yes to any or all of the above, your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual tanks are running on fumes.

If you choose to take this mission possible, get alone and ask yourself:

“How can I love and care for me?”

“What do I love I haven’t taken time for in many moons.”

Then, with resolution, put it on your heart calendar along with how often you will treat yourself.

A solitary dinner with a glass of _____ as you wish. (Westley’s permission )

A walk in nature.

Sitting on the banks of the river or seashore.

A bike ride adventure with no time limit.

Puttering in your garden.

Buying a floral arrangement at the grocery, market or florist.

A browse through a hardware store.

I nurturing hammock hug.

A 20-minute power nap at lunch or mid-afternoon.

A 30-minute soak in the tub.

It’s time to let go of non-edifying habits, routines and chores. Yes, there are mundane activities in each of our lives. If we count them as unpleasant must-dos, we squander the opportunity of putting on rose-colored glasses to see, feel, taste and know the joy of a beautiful life lived in peace, love and gratitude.

You have the key to your own happiness. No one else and nothing else is responsible.

What nourishes you is your medicine and your bliss.

 

If we do not love our life, we’re missing the point of the experience.

Make a wish.

Make it happen.

Love Is All We Need

“As the area of our knowledge grows, so too does the perimeter of our ignorance. It’s knowing enough to think you’re right, but not enough to know you’re wrong.”

Ego saying “My way is the “right” way and the only way.” is legalistic, self-righteous, Pharisaical – spiritual blindness.

Make a practice of seeing others through unfiltered LOVE. Speak only uplifting words

When your vision is cloudy and your tongue throws fire, forgive yourself and begin again. The two steps forward and one back is your footnote to remember Love is forgiving and for giving…to yourself first.

Your love is a Light into the world.

SHINE

Be Seeker in Hide-n-Seek

I have a new intention – playing Seeker  in the Hide and Seek game,

Do you feel your joy has waned and you have forgotten or lost your passion?  I invite you to begin each day, along with me, in the enthusiasm of a “Hide and Seek” game.
For me, adventure has been about exploration, always discovering something new even in the familiar. In the past SEVERAL years, I haven’t always loved my life and asked myself, “Where is my enthusiasm and joy?!”

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I have remembered my perspective has only been a misperception. Joy, Love, FULLfeelment are often hidden in plain sight. With renewed intend to seek, see, feel and be grateful for what has been hiding in plain sight, my own magic makes my excellent adventure victorious.
I am extending TO YOU a helping hand, a boost of hope, a clearer vision from a different perspective. I am happy and honored to travel this excellent adventure with you. I am here to vote your ✌🏼victory. 💋
Let’s talk

Hear Your Brave Heart’s Cry

As humans, we attempt all the escape mechanisms: denial, shopping “therapy”, monetary toys of distraction, sex, drugs, alcohol and _________. (fill in the blank) Any avenue of avoidance can become a road of addiction, a crutch to forget, to avoid remembering and feeling traumatic emotions.

The energies of pain, fear and hate keep us down in a victim mentality. We tend to seek “safety and protection” even if it puts us in a zombie state. Yes, counselors, psychologist, life-coaches (I am that), spiritual healers, etc. can help you identify the fear, an impulse to run away/escape, as well as hate, shame, embarrassment, etc, of what you feel and direct you. BUT, until YOU meet your “demons,” their shadows will arise again and again and again.

Pain and trauma are not here to hurt us but are attention-getting clarion calls to liberate us into the true freedom of who we are. These are personal and uniquely individual. There is no escape. As Winston Churchill said, “When you’re going through hell, keep going.”

The “keep going” is identifying the *emotion, staying with your feeling (instead of running from it), transmuting and loving your pain and trauma…which are really presents you give yourself to BE Present and deal. When not identified, understood, forgiven, loved and transmuted through love, these toxic feelings stored in cells of our body become dis-ease. When we don’t listen to our thoughts and feelings, our body language is our bio computer communicating.

As you can see, existing with emotional pain can be a curse OR a purpose-feeled portal of revelation to live your personal and Divine purpose.
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When your brave heart is ready to begin removing your veils, I am here to assist and inspire you in revealing the true You – the important, courageous, powerful, creative, beautiful, Soul YOU ARE.

Let’s talk

Cynthia@conversationswithcynthia.com

*The prefix “e” indicates “out of, away.” E-motion is away from or out of motion. In my example, e-motion is remaining stuck/with no forward movement, in a feeling experienced in the distant past; normally in early childhood although can be in-utero and from DNA lineage memory.

Black History – Cornrows and Maps

“Did you know…Slaves used cornrows to transfer information and create maps to the north? (Yes,  Cornrows were used to help slaves escape slavery.) Since slaves were not allowed to read or write they had to pass information through cornrows.

It is believed to have originated in Colombia, South America where Benkos Bioho, in the late 1500’s came up with the idea to have women create maps & deliver messages through their cornrows. They were also called “canerows” to represent the sugarcane fields that slaves worked in.

One style had curved braids, tightly braided on their heads. The curved braids would represent the roads they would use to escape.

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Also in their braids they kept gold and hid seeds which helped them survive after they escaped. They would use the seeds to plant crops once they were liberated.

Cornrows was the best way to not give back any suspicion to the owner. He would never figure out such a hairstyle would mean they would escape or the route they would take.” #blackhistorymonth