What woulda’ been, coulda’ been, isn’t what is. It’s useless. It’s defeatist.
Thoughts come, and they go. Which ones we listen to, entertain with imaginings, or believe is, way too often, a conscious choice we make subconsciously…because we’re not “listening” to our thoughts! (For how to take your thoughts captive, you can purchase HOW TO BE THE BEST YOU here http://booklocker.com/books/6811.html.)
Thoughts are deviously coercive.
“coerce: to restrain or dominate by force; to compel to an act or choice; to achieve by force or threat.” (merriam-webster.com) Hmmm.
What thoughts are dictating your actions?
Which actions determine your choices?
Be proactive. Choose with a joyful, faith-filled heart.
Today is a new day!
“The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23m (ESV)