Living with a disability, disease, or illness, have you ever felt like life was out of your control? Do you feel alone, forgotten, robbed of purpose and worth? Don’t fall for it! It’s far from the truth.
Sometimes, circumstances scream “Powerless!” at us. If you believe it, you are. If you don’t, herein lies your true power.
Remember the Christmas classic, “It’s A Wonderful Life?” George Bailey (Jimmy Stewart) is a frustrated businessman with compromised dreams from personal sacrifices. Finding himself in a desperate financial strait, thoughts of his unworthiness, thoughts that he should have never been born, drive him to consider suicide. Then his guardian angel, Clarence, shows him how his nonexistence would have negatively affected the residents of Bedford Falls. This movie is a vivid reminder of the malevolence of self-doubt.
We can all suffer from its destructive, indoctrinating effects if we listen to its lies, which brings me to “What The Bleep Do You Know!?” www.whatthebleep.com (Bookmark this to watch when you’re seriously ready for an awakening.)
It’s part documentary, part story, and part visual effects illustrating how science and religion merge, explaining the interconnectedness of all things.
As Amanda’s (Academy award winner Marlee Matlin, also living with a disability: deafness) uninspired life unravels from relationship woes, she’s thrown into a revelatory wormhole challenging her thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions. Her epiphany is that she is the master of her thoughts, actions, and destiny. http://www.whatthebleep.com/bleep/synopsis/
It’s true that you’re human, living an earthly existence, and possibly combating the influences of disability. But, you needn’t succumb to its rule over you. Challenge the status quo. Rise above those fatalistic thoughts concerning circumstances you’re finding difficult…and your abilities to rise above them? All things are possible.
There are times that I, too, feel forgotten, homebound, and shut-in. That’s when I need a hug. I shared the following experience in my memoir, Views From My Chariot: A Wheelchair Oddity …
That’s exactly what I said one day: “God, I need a hug.”
In my mind, I heard, “Come outside.”
It was a sunny, early fall morning. My home is wrapped with woods on three sides, and there was stillness all around, a palpable quietness. Silhouetted trees and dappled sunlight highlighted the blanket of fallen autumn leaves. I took in a deep breath of tranquility. Instantly, I heard rustlings to my right.
I looked over and up to see the top of a lone tree begin a dervish whirl, waving its branches and clapping its leaves off in twirling descents. For the longest time, I beheld the dance. Then I closed my eyes and joined in until the song was over.
It was better than a hug….
You know, you can remain in whatever dire straits you find yourself (a loved one’s death, disability, disease) or you can lift yourself up and out. You can rise above them with your attitude and confession. You are the creative force in your life. Don’t resign yourself from it.
You’re special. You’re one of-a-kind, unique as your fingerprint. God intimately fashioned you in His image, with the same creative power as Himself.
Do you know that He knows your name? When is the last time you called on His?